white supremacy is: murdering our children on video and then telling us that our eyes are lying. 

Latinos are the largest and fastest-growing ethnic group in the United States. We also are one of the groups most heavily impacted by HIV. According to CDC, we account for 21% of all new HIV infections in the United States. Gay and bisexual men bear the greatest burden of HIV infection in our communities. In some major cities, studies found that nearly 1 in 5 Latino gay and bisexual men are infected with HIV.

So on this day, we are celebrating a few unsung varones who are working everyday to end stigma in our communities. We also send our deepest gratitude to all of you who are having conversations about HIV and working everyday to eliminate stigma and reinforce this beautiful truth: WE ARE THE CURE!

MARCO BENJAMIN foto by: Jesus Rodriguez of LuzAzulStudios

“Today is World AIDS day. I firmly believe in my life time we will see an HIV free generation and always remember that together and only together we will win the war on HIV/AIDS.” Marco does not just speak this beautiful talk but he walks this warrior walk.

A nationally renowned speaker and advocate, Marco works with Latino communities all the over country to develop cultural relative HIV prevention and treatment programs. Diagnosed in 2008, he immediately called his mother and said “Mami, I’m going to ruin your day.” She reacted by saying, “I thought you were going to tell me you were in jail. ‘Mi'jo, you are not the first and you are not going to be the last (to have HIV), Then she made sure I went off to the doctor to see about treatment.“ She also does her part in educating the community. Marco’s approach to HIV prevention and advocacy is a reminder that the fight to end HIV stigma requires love and familia.

Marco currently works with the AIDS Healthcare Foundation of New Jersey.

RICARDO “RICKY” MELENDEZ

Ricardo is what North Philly Legends are made of. In the 90s, he was one of the very few Latinos dominating the ballroom scene in Philadelphia. He used that notoriety to create spaces for LGBT Latinos by organizing LGBT events in the heart of North Philly. "Not everyone wanted or could go to the gayborhood. So I wanted to create events in our neighborhood.” He would go on to create the now legendary Travesuda Nights.

“I tested positive on this day 20 years ago. I remember feeling scared and alone. It was a trans Latina friend of mine who held me together. Now it is my mission in life to do that for other varones who have just been diagnosed. Our stories and existence alone ends HIV stigma. We have power chyle!”

On Friday, December 4th, Ricky will be hosting an event commemorating World AIDS Day. Click here for more info. 

ADRIAN CASTELLANOS

Adrian aka Ayden is a twenty-three year old HIV and AIDS advocate/activist from Texas, Rio Grande Valley who utilizes social media to deconstruct stigma and engage with as many people as possible.

At twenty one, Castellanos’ path was redirected as he was diagnosed with AIDS, while he spent two weeks in a hospital room, he decided to “make his mess his message”. Since being diagnosed on March 26, 2014 he has gone on to receive a Youth Initiative Scholarship to attend USCA in OCT. 2014, acquire a position with the Valley AIDS Council (the only HIV/AIDS Agency in his area) JAN. 2015, receive a separate scholarship to attend AIDSWatch in APR. 2015 and receive a Social Media Fellows Scholarship to USCA 2015. Adrian now spends his time doing free HIV screenings at two universities in his area and for the community with his agency. He also participates in outreach and education efforts to raise awareness within his community.

“AIDS is still a very real thing. I want you to remember that. Queer Latinx people often pass away withing the first year of diagnoses because we waited too long before getting tested. Because homphobia won’t allow us to talk about our sex. Because transphobia makes us targets of systemic and interpersonal violence. Because racism puts us at a level of disadvantage that prevents us from seeking medical attention”

Read his inspiring World AIDS Day article here.

Jorian Alexi Veintidos 

At just 23, Jorian Alexi Veintidos has already begun creating a huge shift in the way that HIV is seen and talked about in Latino communities in Philadelphia. He recently shared his story with Gran Varones and it became our most shared and viewed profile. He courage to speak openly about living with HIV has opened the much needed conversation among varones.  “By sharing my story as a young person living and thriving with HIV, I want to be a model of positivity that while my journey was has not been easy journey it also has not been impossible.”

Jorian was recently selected by Advocates for Youth after a national search to be a Youth Ambassador for National Youth AIDS Awareness Day.

ANTHONY LEON

Anthony moved to Philadelphia in 2013 and immediately began working and mentoring Latino and Black gay and trans* youth. For two years he served as coordinator of Mazzoni Center’s #A1PHA Project, one of Philadelphia’s only prevention project that intentionally and culturally works with young Latino gay men.

Anthony is also the co-creator of the Gran Varones Project and has leveraged that role to unapologetically advocate varones who continue to be marginalized by racism, poverty, homophobia and HIV Stigma. “Because Gran Varones, people disclose to me and reach out for support in navigating care and treatment services.”

Anthony is one the most sex and body positive people we know.  approach to ending stigma is essential as we all deserve to feel sexy, fuck, get fucked, make love and have a healthy sex life regardless of our HIV status and body size.

Anthony is currently Youth Education Manager at Mazzoni Center where in addition to overseeing the #A1PHA Project, he manages their Ally Safe Schools Project.

RICHARD “RICHIE” LABOY

Richie has worked for various non-profit organizations since 2002. He has worked deeply with the Ballroom Community in Philadelphia on many social and sexual health issues including; homelessness, HIV/AIDS awareness, mental health treatment, substance abuse rehabilitation, fighting poverty and HIV stigma. He is legendary on both and off of the runway!

“I grew up in the Ballroom community. It was my family and I watched as HIV took many of them away from me. It fuels my passion. I owe it to my community to make sure that they are reached – with dignity and affirmation.”

Deemed  legendary in 2009, Richard continues to be make in the impact in the ballroom scene as part of the House of Miyake-Mugler. He is also working as a Clinical Research Assistant at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia where he works on a research project to determine if a culturally-tailored health promotion intervention will reduce health risk behaviors of young men who have sex with men within the Ballroom community in Philadelphia.

happy new year varones! hope the start of the 2016 has been full of love, inspiration and rest because baby, there is still work to done!

so the new year has begun and in less than a damn week, we have pissed off white mummers parade loving people and an ice cream shop. allow me to tell you all about it!

we brought in the new year in my hometown of philadelphia. while there, we were able to support the blacklivesmatter philadelphia movement by participating in their interruption of the historically racists and homophobic mummers parade on new year’s day. while the protest was short, we were clearly reminded just how racist philadelphia is.

not only did we get booed, screamed at and told that we don’t “belong here”, but we also experienced told the same shit in a series of rather hilarious tweets. it is a helluva experience to experience blatant racism in real life (while philly’s finest watched) and on social media simultaneously. #WhiteSupremacy360

all this because we tweeted the truth - the mummers parade is hella racist and homophobic.

these fools actually put their kids in brown face. oh yeah, and this was fuckin’ televised.

so was this tasteless and transphobic performance mocking caillyn jenner’s transition by the finnegan new year’s brigade. get up into the fuckin’ “dude looks like a lady” song. this too was televised.

in addition to this bullshit, a gay man walking his dog was verbally and physically assaulted by members of the same brigade.

of course city officials were like “oh my gawd, we are not only surprised but appalled at the by the transphobia at the mummers parade.” those of us who have not been living under a gentrified rock, know that this is pretty normal for the mummers parade. what i found interesting although pretty norm for philly LGBTQ “leaders” was that they just refused to mention and/or acknowledge the historical racism that plagues this damn parade every year. i am not sure if they just assume that brown face is not offensive or that those in the LGBTQ community at large are just not offended by it. ima go with both.

the mummers leadership released an statement letter “apologizing” for their antics. you can google it, i am sure. i couldn’t stomach it as i am exhausted with white people, white tears and their apologies over their racist antics.

on january 2, a fellow varon from new york contacted us to inform of a screen shot of a trans woman in a fight with a horribly offensive caption posted on the new york and philly based big gay ice cream’s instragram account. (see below)

yes, you read correctly, they used the slur “tranny” and seem to think that it is funny. they also seem to think that violence is funny. we called them out via twitter because after all that’s what twitter is for and these assholes block us! LMAO  2016 is off to great start!

Over the past week, conversations about the construct of race have dominated social media. I won’t go into the fact that brown and black people have long challenged this construct and have paid a heavy price for it. However, few have shifted this “new” conversation that conveniently has “new” language (transracial) to shine light on the apartheid currently taking place in the Dominican Republic.

Admittedly, I have struggled with how to approach this horrific reality without imposing the judgement of developing countries that I have been socialized to believe. I have written and rewritten this piece about one hundred times, carefully crafting a statement that is informed on every level. As a Boricua, who was raised on the mainland, North Philadelphia to be exact, I recognize that I am not directly impacted by the history and continued tension between Haiti and the Dominican Republic. However, as a member of the Latin@ community, I do believe it is vital that we all stand in solidarity with all those who struggle to survive an oppressive state that often times robs us of our humanity.

We as Latinxs must address the anti-blackness that exists within the fabric of our culture and history as we again come face to face with the irrefutable evidence of the hatred it breeds. For all of us who work with and beside our undocumented family and friends, we cannot act as if our battles for freedom and citizenship here in America are not connected to the struggle of Haitian-Dominicans. It is not enough to simply place blame without understanding how the oppression in developing countries fuels a parallel experience of pain, anger and outrage. Haitian-Dominicans are suffering the very same systemic oppression that has socialized us all to believe, promote and reinforce the idea that the lives of poor people do not matter, that Black lives don’t matter and that queer lives don’t matter. Oh yes, queer folks are among those who will be facing detention and deportation in the Dominican Republic.

Our families have all courageously ventured to new land, seeking freedom and/or sanctuary. How dare we not honor our history by standing with others who have done and will do the same, others who continue to face violence for seeking these same human rights? #Not1More extends far beyond the borders of America. The foundation and promise of #Not1More must reach all corners of the earth, reminding us that humanity always trumps patriotism.

As this was going to “print”, details of the horrific act of terror in Charleston, North Carolina began to surface. And even now, it is clear that the only Black life that matters in this country is Rachel Dolezal. BBC is the only media outlet covering this at length. If you continue to keep up with this story via “popular” media, pay close attention to how media will humanize this US terrorist. Then remember that just two weeks ago, the young black teenage assaulted by police in McKinney, Texas was not provided the same opportunity of humanity.

We send love & light to all impacted by the war on black and brown bodies. We are raging with you. We are crying with you. And we are standing with you.